|Written by Lele|
So your newly single and your down in the dumps. A few days of laying in bed eating ice cream going over what could have been and what is not is okay but just a FEW days! You have to remember "Everything happens for a reason" and "If its meant to be it will be." So stop worrying about it and be happy already. Let me tell you the simple steps to being happy ... Single TOP BENEFITS OF BEING SINGLE!
No Reporting - you don't have to ever explain yourself. The longer you wait, the better you know yourself, instead of someone else. You don't have to use the "headache" excuse anymore You don't have to change your life because someone else has jealousy issues.
You can do what you want, when you want You can focus on your career You can flirt with whoever you please You don't have to put up with smelly laundry and foul smelling socks.
You don't have to explain why you need 30 pairs of shoes and 40 bag
-Get Dolled Up! This is the perfect opportunity for you to try something new that you might have been afraid to try while you were in your relationship. Treat yourself to a day of pampering. Its a known fact that when you look good you feel good. And just because he's not around anymore to impress doesn't mean you can't do something good just for yourself.
- Better Yourself: Take this time to break a bad habit you always wanted to break. Shift your focus to dropping those pounds you've been dying to shed. Do things that only you can respect. If your doing things that you think will catch the eye of another then there is no point and no gain in it for you.