|Written by Nonar21|
I have been with one man for six years, and we split up about seven months ago. We had gotten together for a short time again about three months ago, and we became pregnant. Even though I am pregnant we are not back together, in fact he is seeing someone else and wants no involvement with the baby at this time. This is a hard situation, but there is ways to get over him. There are things that all women can do to get over there ex.
You should begin by focusing on yourself. This means doing things that make you happy. This could be going to the movies that you want, taking time for a class that you want or something that you and him wouldnâ€™t do because he didnâ€™t enjoy it.
Think about what he did in the relationship that you did not like. There is usually quite a bit that we can think of after the relationship is over. My ex was so moody, and did a lot of little things that would annoy the heck out of me. So now I am happy to have a clean house, not have to pick up his clothes every day, and actually have the lid on the toothpaste. (Even the little things should be thought of.)
Do something that you have been putting off for a long time. You may want to go back to school, move to another state, or start your own business. No matter what it is that you have been putting off, take time to do it now.
Make goals for your life. These could be financial, emotional, or any other type of goals. These goals will give you something to focus on, and make getting over him easier. It may be things that you would never be able to accomplish with him in the picture.
Avoid jumping into another relationship to fast. I have learned from past experiences that it usually ends up the same way. Take the time to focus on yourself for a little while. I was one of those women that felt I could not do it without a man, but I was wrong. I have had problems, but it has been a great experience learning to take care of me.
Remember that even though we tend to think he is our live, he really is not. There is ways to get over him, and we all can do it. The main thing is to remember that you are important, and can give yourself a good life. I have realized that I will never be able to have someone love me completely because I did not love myself completely.