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How to Resolve Camp Roommate Conflicts |
| Written by Bill Hanks |
 Each summer, campers are thrown into dorms with strangers. For individuals not use to this, it can be very stressful. This article looks at dealing with your roommate and the conflicts that come up from time to time.
First, know the rules. Many camps will have rules already in place. Go over these with your new roommate. Have a clear understanding of what is and isn't expected. Most of these rules, were long established before you arrived. They are set up to make your experience more enjoyable and to keep you safe. Violating rules could mean a quick return trip back home. Review these carefully with your roommate and remember the consequences. Solve them before they happen. Be honest with your new roommate. Let them know what you expect and also respect their wishes. You can head off problems by simple communication right after you arrive. For example, let them know how you feel about them borrowing your stuff. Question each other about your likes and dislikes. Let them know your expectations. Things like sleeping in, quiet time, music preference, sharing food, room security, room temperature, and lights out are very important issues to be discussed. Cleaning and neatness responsibilities. Share cleaning duties. Set up a cleaning schedules and stick to them. Usually cleaning at the same time is a good idea. This way both are doing equal work. Equal responsibilities are vital to a good roommate relations. Top bunk, bottom bunk. I hate bunk beds. However, most camps use them to save space in a dorm. If one of you gets up a lot during the night, they should take the bottom bunk. When climbing into a top bunk, keep your feet off the bunk below if possible. Security. Never leave money unattended in your room. Either carry it on you, or have it locked up. If you leave it out, and it disappears, blame only your stupidity. Use the "I" statement. Anytime you have something come up that affects you personally, send a clear message. Example, "I do not appreciate you eating on my bed." The I lets them know that it is an unwanted behavior. See the hall director. There will be times, when you need outside advice. Use your hall or dorm director. Their decision is final. If you can't work out a problem between yourselves, seek assistance. Most conflicts at camp can be headed off early by simple talking and understanding.
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