|Written by Deborah Sexton|
Women think it's harder to be the type of woman men adore, but it's not. There are a few simple rules. Follow these rules and you will become irresistible. They may seem overly simple to you but they work. Think about your own reactions and attitudes toward men.
The secret to being a woman who men love involves your personality.
To a man your smile is a beautiful invitation. So smile as you look into his eyes and be playful. If a woman is interested in a man she may avert her eyes to hide her interest. This usually happens when a woman is shy or afraid of rejection. A man sees this as a message that she has been hurt a lot or that she is unavailable (married).
Men always look for signs that it's OK to approach a woman. If you freely smile at a man he will take this as a sign you're confident and warm. It's very important to a man that a woman is confident in herself. If she isn't it gives him the idea she has had bad relationships or that he will have to deal with jealousy.
The more feminine a woman is the more men she will attract. Men like women who are soft, who wear dresses with pretty colors. Wear soft dresses that show your curves (*not your skin). Most men love long hair because it adds to a woman's femininity. (at least shoulder length)
Men are very visual. If a man sees something he likes it can completely mesmerize him. Don't feel you have to be small and perfect, you don't. All you have to do is emit femininity.
*If you dress sexy and in harsh overpowering colors, with plunging necklines: A man will think of you in a sexual way or not think of you at all. Men typically would not be proud to be seen with a women who totally emits sexuality.
Your tone of voice should be as feminine as your dress. If you laugh and speak loudly and/or harshly, he will tune you out. I don't think it's only men who are turned off by this. We all have the ability to change our speech and laugh patterns and really there is no need to be loud
Be A Listener:
Did you know that men perceive women as talkers who don't want to listen?
It's simple. Become attractive inside and out and men will desire you