How to Rekindle Romance

Love is hard to find, but once you obtain it you should hold on to it. There are small simple ways to accomplish this. read more....

Step 1

Now you have gotten married and the once flickering flames begins to dim. Not to worry because the fire can be restarted with a little patience, effort and time. The first thing two people should do is talk about what bothers them to clear the air. You should maintain an open mind, because if it is a problem for someone it is a problem for the relationship marriage. Listen to their every word and make sure they know you are listening, because the other person does not want to waste their time. You should keep in mind that some things are not able to be solved, then you should kindly agree to disagree.

Step 2

Once the air has been cleared now the fun begins. You should do something unexpected like make plans to have a quiet meal once a week or do something fun. You should get to know them all over again, because people change. Make them feel comfortable expressing their feelings and opinions. I recommend one day surprising them with a candle light dinner at home so you can be comfortable and there is no one to distract you. After you have chosen an activity, give him or her a full body massage. This relaxes the mind for more stimulating conversation.

Most people are not use to talking about what pleases them, so you should get them comfortable talking about these things and make sure you be honest. Love means more to most women than gratification. But if you let them know that you want to improve on pleasing her, then she will be really happy with you. Men I have to say this, you have to concentrate on pleasing the women first then your satisfaction will come. A woman that knows you are more interested in her pleasure will be happy to return the favor.

Most of us are use to bathing in private, but now that you are comfortable with each other's body then you can really get to being romantic. I recommend giving your love a bath that involves you doing the towel rubbing and candle lights with soft music in the background. While you are bathing them, look them in the eyes and tell them how much you enjoy their presence. Let them do the same for you, you will both enjoy this. Our feet are the most tender and neglected part of our bodies. Wash their feet to prepare them for a good massage, while you watch your favorite show.

And men I know we like sports, but you must not neglect your love every Sunday. If you know the game comes on that evening, then you should pamper your love first and then she will be happy to let you watch the game. She may even watch it with you. If she does not understand what is happening explain it to her. These are ways to rekindle romance, but not intended to be the only way, I just want you to think about romance. Happy Loving.

Comments (4)

msoz2009 said:

	... I really liked your tips. Keeping the romance alive is very important in every relationship.
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August 12, 2009
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mbelk said:

	... thank you
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Carl Benjamin said:

	... This article reminds me to take care of my wife.
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August 17, 2009
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paul said:

	... Very nice article. Keep up the hard work.
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August 17, 2009
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